Make That Choice
When we are on this adventure, it is extremely difficult to tell a loved one or a friend that you no longer want to participate with this action or hang out with them in the 3D illusion or do what they ask you to do. Many are in the state of fear of losing you or want you in the same old box they are in and don't want you to grow and they lose another vampire relationship they are in, which is with you. When we consciously understand the situation and that we need to make a choice, we are bombarded with a myriad of negative emotions that bring us down, making it difficult to make that choice. Guilt and abandonment and victimization is on the top of the list of main culprits that we need to keep an eye on. It seems according to the ego we are abandoning this person and we are harming them by letting them go and not connecting with them anymore or not doing what they want us to do. But is this really true?
When we made the choice and express ourselves, the being has a choice, they can chose to respect your choice and let you go, or chose to take this as abandonment, attack, or victimization. It is their choice, but we must not let ourselves get entangled with their drama and loose our focus and center. Many begin to play victim/victimization games and role playing and get us entangled as we forget to see the bigger picture and just see them as the friend or the family member who do not want us out of the box.
Let's look at the bigger picture, we have been on this planet for thousands of years and gone through many relationships and experiences. It seems we have done all that we need to do, and had these beings as our family, friends, enemies, etc. All the roles have been played, all the contracts completed, it's just one more to finish and be aligned to our God self/eternal spirit. We have a long journey ahead and much more to do and much more to figure out; do we need to have this guilt or this person to weigh you down? I bet the answer is a big NO. We have to also remember that when we make this choice we are allowing them to grow and heal and be free of the illusion they are holding.
I know it is harder than what I say here, but this is a start. Go and work with it, you can be free from the false parent who controls and doesn’t want you to take your spiritual journey, or the friend that drags you down and still wants you to be stuck in the 3D world of illusion. If we are true to our self and know our core values, we can use that integrity as our strength to push us through so many challenges we come across on this path. Be strong, we have all the support and strength, it is time to make that choice.